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What to do about in laws that hate you?
To help you manage time spent with extended family, here are 4 ways of successfully dealing with in-laws.
- Get Your Partner’s Support.
- Don’t Wait for Them to Change.
- Don’t Judge Yourself or Your Partner.
- Take Care of Yourself Before and After.
How do I deal with an unfriendly daughter in law?
How to improve your relationship with your hard-to-handle daughter-in-law
- Recognize her role in your family.
- Never compare children.
- Heal rifts quickly.
- Be a pleasant force in her life.
- Accept her unconditionally.
- Problem-solve difficulties.
- Keep the door open.
- Avoid any hint of criticism.
Why is my mother-in-law so clingy to my son?
In contrast to problem #3 where your parent-in-law treats you or your husband as an infant, in this case, they are the ones acting like a child. It’s like they’re afraid of losing the attention of their son, so they become clingy, needy and attached to him, even to the point of competing for his love with you.
How to deal with in-laws that refuse to respect your space?
In-laws that refuse to respect your space as a couple can definitely complicate things. How to Deal: It’s hard to tell somebody to stop coming around so much without seeming rude and standoffish yourself.
What to do if extended family refuses to help with child support?
If extended family members are still refusing to provide support, parents should begin to reevaluate those relationships. “Sometimes family members need to process their own feelings of guilt or shame,” says Ann Stocker, a registered psychotherapist with The Institute of Family Living in Toronto.
Do in-laws come around when grandchildren are born?
Sometimes, in-laws come around when grandchildren are born. Other times, hearts soften with age. Unpredictable moments in life can be milestones. Most importantly, remember that this problem is more about them than it is about you. Stay focused on your own marriage, and you can find happiness and lifelong love together.