What is secure love?

A secure relationship is defined by feeling safe and both people getting their attachment needs to be met. Both partners are generally content and relaxed. Before approaching your partner with a complaint think about things you can really do to make you feel more secure.

What makes a man feel secure in a relationship?

The quickest way to create emotional safety in any relationship is to show that you trust your partner and respect their needs. If he has a few close girlfriends he likes to talk to and hang out with, let him know you trust him and his judgment, while also showing that you can be trusted with your guy friends.

What is the difference between NT love and Aspie love?

To an NT, love is more about respect, commitment and other semi-tangibles, while an aspie may respond that it’s the feeling you get when you look at your partner’s smile and it warms your face like when the sun is shining on it. To an NT, this is just poetry but to an aspie it’s reality.

What is the best definition of an Aspie?

Top definition. aspie. An aspie is one who has Asperger’s Syndrome, which is believed to be part of the autism spectrum. Aspies, while being quite gifted verbally, have social, emotional, and sensory integration difficulties, among others. Aspie is an affectionate term, and is not meant as a put down.

What separates Aspies from NTS in love?

That’s what love is. Thoughts… If love is thoughts, then it’s the expression of those thoughts that separates aspies from neurotypical people. Aspies tend to express love through practical actions, whereas NTs are more likely to express love through words or symbolic actions.

What does it mean to love someone with Aspergers?

” Loving someone with Asperger’s means accepting that you are going to sometimes feel “left out” or “forgotten about.” But not out of spite or malice. And if you can be direct, clear, and make a request, and not act out of spite or malice yourself, things will go a lot more smoothly.