What to say to your ex when they want to talk?

Here are six simple, direct, and casual ways to start a conversation.

1. “Hey [ex’s name], I was just thinking about you.
2. “Hi [ex’s name], I’ve been doing some thinking and I really regret how things between us ended.
3. “Hey, just wanted to say congrats on your new job!
4. “Hey [ex’s name], it’s been a while.
5. “Hey!

What to do if your ex wants to talk to you?

Try these things on for size.

1. Think about how it will affect you.
2. If you’re currently dating someone, you should consider their feelings.
3. Take your time responding.
4. Keep your response light.
5. Don’t rush into a response, friendship, or rebound.
6. Be open and honest with them.

Should I talk to my ex if he wants to talk?

Remember: There’s nothing wrong with wanting to talk to your ex, and it’s completely OK to want to reach out to them. But as Fehr says, it might not be the best idea in the long run. You simply must do what feels best for you, and only you know what that is.

What to do when u miss your ex?

What to Do When You Miss Your Ex

1. Use the feeling of missing your ex as an opportunity to grow.
2. Ask what and how questions.
3. Remember why this person is already an ex.
4. Make lists of all of the negative parts of the relationship.
5. You can’t predict what you should be feeling.
6. Normalize your emotional response.

Should you talk to your ex when you’re happy?

Again, don’t respond if you’re currently drinking. If you’re happy and it doesn’t hurt you to talk to your ex, then do it. If you’re happy, but it still hurts to talk to your ex, don’t do it. Why even bother?

What should you show Your Ex when you want them back?

If you can show your ex that you’re able to keep your cool and that you’re more attentive, you’re completing the first step to meeting their expectations, and you’ll be sending a strong message. That said, “communication” doesn’t mean that all topics are fair game when you’re talking to your ex and want them back.

How do you deal with an ex who doesn’t want contact?

Your ex doesn’t desire contact or interaction with you if there is this kind of anger. Attempts by you to interact with them will be met with negativity along with likely pushing your ex even further away from you. Your only option in this situation is a clean-slate message and then to use the no contact rule.

How can I get my Ex back without being rude?

My advice to you is to engage in short conversation without being rude, but disengage quickly. If you’re working on getting an ex back, they are going to need to understand that you’re not at their beck and call anymore. This can help to develop a feeling of desire for you.