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- Start interacting with them every day.
- Do not feel shy, just act normal everytime you have conversation.
- Ignore other people cause I think thats a main reason few boys don’t talk with girls as they overthinking what their friends will say/think.
- If she is in your school / college try having lunch/ dinner.
Why do people struggle to Socialise?
Private or shy people who struggle with loneliness issues often find it a challenge to increase their socialization because of intense feelings of anxiety or self-defeating beliefs. For this reason, even if you are good at socializing, take steps to deepen your relationships.
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- Stop overthinking what you are about to say.
- Limit thinking words.
- Reference previous conversations.
- Talk about your pets.
- Never one-up other people.
- Take the pressure off of yourself.
- Repeat the question someone asked you.
- Read books on the subject.
What happens when you stop socializing?
Social connections are important to happiness, health, and overall feelings of connectivity to society. Lack of these connections can lead to isolation, decreased self-esteem, and shorter lifespan. The negative effects of loneliness can start to set in within just over one day of not socializing.
Is it bad that I don’t like to socialise?
There is no problem, there’s nothing to “detect and correct”. We’re not sick; we’re not, as some people called me, sociopaths. Just because we’re different, it doesn’t make us wrong. It’s fine to not like to socialise.
If you’ve ever felt exhausted from socializing, there’s a very real reason. Here’s the science behind why socializing is draining for us “quiet ones” — it has to do with our unique wiring as introverts. First, let’s get a few things out of the way. The above scenario is just an example, and a generalization.
Another thing. Socializing is actually draining for everyone eventually. A recent study from the University of Helsinki found that participants reported higher levels of fatigue three hours after socializing — whether they were an introvert or an extrovert.
Socialising has always been a struggle and now it’s coming to a point where I wonder what I can do. I struggle to trust people and that stemmed from the bullying I suffered throughout my school days and that lack of trusting is really starting to get to me. In a way I do fear going outside.