How do INTPs handle compliments?

INTPs can sometimes struggle with receiving compliments, and might brush them off. INTPs can be hard on themselves, and they know that sometimes people just deliver compliments in order to butter someone up.

How do you show love to an INTP?

To love an INTP, carve out space for them within your schedule. This type prefers one-on-one time to group hangouts, so show them you care by asking them to hang out just the two of you. Take an interest in what they’re interested in and get to know them in a genuine, authentic manner.

How do you compliment an Enfp?

The best compliments for this ENFP fall into two categories:

1. Compliments that succinctly articulate the essence that is me. That’s something that INFJs, INFPs, and INTJs can do very well… if the spirit moves them.
2. Also, saying anything about how I have a positive impact on your life. Wow!

Do INTPs like praise?

In my experience, INTPs value appreciation shown in indirect compliments. So, instead of saying “your mind fascinates me” which might leave them a little flustered, you could say “good idea!” or “I never thought of it that way” when they’re sharing their thoughts.

Do INTJs like compliments?

INTJs don’t compliment your looks or give you googly-eyes when you look good. Instead, we focus on compliments that hold more meaning. We could potentially compliment your intelligence or your sense of humor. If we truly are in love, we dig deeper and make sure you feel that love through our compliments.

Why can’t I take compliments well?

There are three factors happening here, feeding into one another endlessly to make it hard to accept compliments: low self-esteem, cognitive dissonance, and high expectations. Either way, you have low self-esteem. So when someone compliments you, this jars with the truth you hold about yourself.