When can you choose to live with your dad?

Until you are 18 the Court determines where you live. At 12 you can talk with the Judge, but the standard is what is in your best interest, not what you want. Your father would have to file a lawsuit to start the process. He could also file one to enforce his right to see you.

Can a 12 year old decide who they want to live with?

Fam. Code § 3042 (a).) If a child is at least 14, the law allows the child to state a custodial preference, unless the judge believes doing so would be detrimental. Children can’t choose where to live until they are 18 years old.

Can a child decide which parent to live with during a divorce?

A judge may also take into account the child’s own wishes. However, that is not to say your child will have the ability to decide whom to live with during a divorce. A judge may ask a child who is old enough (typically 12 to 14) which parent he or she prefers to live with the majority of the time.

What to do when your child wants to live with another parent?

If you’re having a hard time viewing the request objectively, talk with a friend or counselor about how to separate your child’s request from your identity as a parent. Badmouth the other parent. Even when you truly believe that living with the other parent would be harmful to your child’s…

Can a minor child move in with a noncustodial parent after a divorce?

In general, though, courts do not ask a minor child who he or she prefers to live with after a divorce. However, teenagers may request to move in with the noncustodial parent for a variety of reasons. Ascertaining the reason for the request is the first step for parents to consider when discussing a change of residence.

Can a judge ask a child which parent to live with?

A judge may ask a child who is old enough (typically 12 to 14) which parent he or she prefers to live with the majority of the time. A judge will typically do this outside of the courtroom, to keep the child out of the case as much as possible.