How do you know when a guy is not flirting with you?

You can just say “I’m sorry, I’m not interested.” Usually that’s enough. You can tell them that you’re flattered, or that you think they’re great, but aren’t in a good place to go out with them or don’t have those kinds of feelings for them.

What is considered flirting for guys?

A guy who is flirting with you will let his witty side come out and play. He’ll share some really fun, cute stories, pull out the clever quips and punchy anecdotes, and be his most charming, dashing self. He’ll do anything to make you laugh and make that extra effort to make you comfortable in his presence.

How do you politely decline flirting?

Simply say something like “I don’t want to waste your time or mine, but I believe in being up-front and honest. I’m afraid I’m not interested in going out with you. Sorry.” Idk man, I mean, if you don’t want them flirting with you, just tell them to their face.

Are You a loser if you only attract losers?

You’re not a loser because you made a mistake BUT you can hurt yourself unnecessarily if you continue to NOT learn from your mistakes. You made a wrong or bad decision, that’s all. When you find yourself with a guy you deemed as a loser – it does not have to mean you only attract losers.

What are some signs that a guy is a loser?

The guy you would refer to as being a loser. Sometimes they’re practically perfect when you’re first dating but not long after you commit to each other… they become clingy, needy, overbearing, and sometimes borderline controlling. So just maybe they’re “one” way when you meet but suddenly become “someone else” all too quickly and painfully.

Do you consider the second type a loser?

Yes, the second type is quite rude and certainly can be considered a loser BUT he’s doing you a favor and saying goodbye to him will only help you and make you stronger. The third type feels misled by you.

Can you control what type of guy you feel attracted to?

But first… a few things needs to be covered. You have absolutely NO CONTROL over the type of guy you feel is attracted to you. You can create attraction and you can destroy it. You will have men who like you and you will have men who don’t.