Are INFJs on time?

INFJs live so much in their own inner worlds that it can sometimes be difficult for them to remain focused- but they still put forth the effort. They will likely be on time or even early for work and specific events that are important to them or those closest to them.

Do INFJs see the world differently?

INFJs and INTJs are also gifted at seeing many perspectives – they shift perspectives regularly, trying to see which one is the truest. This gives them a gift for understanding the underlying meanings and patterns in other people’s behavior.

Can an INFJ be talkative?

INFJs aren’t usually chatty people, especially in new social situations. INFJs can become talkative around someone they trust who makes them comfortable, but that doesn’t mean they are incapable of listening as well.

Why do other people find INFJs so confusing?

Other people might find INFJs confusing because we appear differently in different contexts and in front of different people. For others, they might think they know us very well, but what they understood or saw is just a fragment of us. It’s not that INFJs are being inauthentic.

Why do INFJs withdraw from people?

INFJs withdraw to protect themselves. INFJs don’t like to shut people out completely, but we do so to protect ourselves from getting hurt, for example, from people who betray our trust and kindness. Also, we don’t shut people out after they make one mistake.

Why is the INFJ personality type so complicated?

The INFJ personality type is a paradox. It can be hard for other people to understand. When I studied literature in secondary school, I love oxymoron — “sweet sorrow”, “beautiful tyrant”, “loving hate” and etc. Perhaps because I am one. Our complexity is due to our contradictory INFJ traits.

Are INFJs tired of helping people?

But most of the time, INFJs are just tired from helping people because we are easily affected by other people’s problems. So we need to withdraw and break contact with others for a while to recharge.