Can INFJs be rude?

INFJ – Talking Over Others INFJs don’t like confrontation and many of them will put up with a lot of irritating behavior from someone else before they’ll risk addressing it. We do not like to see anyone ignored or silenced, and there’s a good chance we’ll call someone out on that type of rude behavior.

Why are INFJs so negative?

Conflict is anathema to them, and they hate the feeling of letting anyone down. This is especially true of INFJs who are 2s in the enneagram system. Because INFJs are so driven to help others and to create a positive sense of morale, they can have a hard time saying no or setting strong boundaries.

Are INFJs good writers?

INFJs are often natural writers. We not only have the empathy to understand others, but as Introverts, we enjoy working alone. For many people, the solitude necessary for writing is the hardest part, but for INFJs, it often feels like a sanctuary.

What MBTI is JRR Tolkien?

Personality Analysis. A penchant for languages and an active fantasy imagination are often found in individuals with the Mediator personality type. With that in mind, J.R.R. Tolkien, in our opinion, is a unique embodiment of an Assertive Mediator (INFP-A).

Are INFJ’s sensitive?

INFJs absorb other people’s emotions like a sponge. In fact, many INFJs are actually highly sensitive, which is why they tend to take on people’s emotions so fully.

What do INFJs find attractive in relationships?

They see and appreciate INFJ intelligence, caring natures, sense of humor, and sincere kindness. Instead of finding our depth of ideas and emotions intimidating, they find it intriguing. And since many INFJs like to bond deeply with other people, we’re very attractive to types who like to “go deep” in relationships.

Do INFJ’s have a blind spot?

INFJs are supposed to be really good at reading other people’s emotions, guessing their thoughts, and seeing things from their perspectives. In many situations, that’s true. But there’s one type of situation where many INFJs (including myself) feel like we have a blind spot.

What are the biggest deal breakers for INFJs?

1. I can’t see a future with you. This is the biggest deal breaker for me. It takes a lot for INFJs to develop a meaningful relationship, so if you want an INFJ to commit, be solid and resolute in your long-term plans, and most importantly — make sure they include the INFJ!