Can you forgive someone and still feel resentment?
When someone you care about hurts you, you can hold on to anger, resentment and thoughts of revenge — or embrace forgiveness and move forward.
How do you forgive someone you love for hurting you?
Here are eight ways to work on that.
- Get mad, feel hurt and grieve.
- Ask yourself whether your anger is constructive or destructive.
- Don’t worry—you aren’t saying the offense was OK.
- Practice stress-reduction techniques.
- Remind yourself why you want this person in your life.
- Set boundaries.
How to forgive your boyfriend when he doesn’t want to hurt you?
Forgive him for not making his issues your issues because he knows that it’s wrong and unfair of him to do that. Forgive him for keeping you at a distance instead of bringing you closer because he doesn’t want to hurt you when he’s hurting. Forgive him when he doesn’t know how to ask you for help when he is in-need so he pretends he’s okay instead.
How do I Forgive my Boyfriend for asking me questions?
Forgive him for asking you questions that he already asked before because he’s traumatized. Forgive him for being on the edge at times because he’s still learning how to live with his anxiety. Forgive him when he says mean things but hold him accountable for what he says because that’s not acceptable.
Should you forgive a man who keeps things from you?
Don’t forgive a man who keeps things from you, who only tells you false things about him so you think he’s better than who he actually is. Don’t forgive a man who manipulates you to stay with him, who keeps you in the dark. Forgive him for thinking you are going to do him like everyone else did.
Should I Forgive my husband for taking the easy way out?
Don’t forgive him for taking the easy way out when he has support and resources that can help him heal, get better and become stronger. Forgive him for not being able to be the man you need him to be. You don’t have to stay with him. And if you’ve left him already, it’s better if you just let it go because you deserve to be happy.