Did your narcissistic ex Love you and want to marry you?

If you thought that your very romantic narcissistic ex really loved you and wanted to marry you, you are not crazy. Even though he is now gone, your guy actually meant what he said when he said it to you. He was in love with you, or at least with his own romantic fantasy of the two of you as the perfect couple.

Will my narcissistic ex ever settle during the breakup?

Your narcissistic ex will likely refuse to settle or negotiate during the breakup, especially if we are dealing with divorce. Remember, narcissists only care about winning and getting what they want. There’s no room for negotiation in their minds.

What are the signs of a narcissistic ex?

Narcissists lack empathy, have a desire to win above all else and could care less about the consequences of their behavior. Your ex will work hard to pollute the waters and paint you black to your co-workers, family, friends and anyone else who will lend their ears. 4. Narcissists will do their best to lure you into their game.

Is your relationship with a narcissist destroying you?

In the relationship, you don’t see the negative effect it has on you. But narcissists drain anyone of any good energy or any good intentions one might have. This relationship could be the thing that completely destroys you and by the time you’re ready to walk away the damage is done.

When a narcissist won’t leave a relationship?

When the Narcissist Won’t Leave. There are cases where the narcissist does not leave. These are usually relationships that seem to stay in the devaluation (abusive) part of the cycle most of the time, and the narcissist’s reason for staying often seems to be to have a person to blame and/or abuse.

Do narcissistic men fall in love easily?

The narcissistic men that I call “Romantics” fall in love easily and love being in love. They also love all the trappings of the perfect romance as much as you do: dinner by candle light, cozy weekends in the cabin in the woods, and moonlight walks along the beach.

Why do narcissists discard people?

Why Do Narcissists Discard People? Narcissists get bored very easily. Initially, they are intoxicated by the chase and the conquest of a new partner, and they are prone to magical thinking and idealization, which means they often believe all of their problems can be solved by “the right person.”

Why did the narcissist start taking me for granted?

The problem was that the narcissist started taking you for granted. He got used to having you around. Maybe he got shiny new object syndrome, or he said life was too boring and left you to pursue whatever it was he wanted. Maybe you just finally had enough and you left him.

Can you change a narcissistic ex-wife?

You can’t change her, but you can change yourself. An interesting thing about narcissistic ex-wives is that they will move on the second they don’t get the gratification from having your attention and energy. Now, be no fooled, this goes far beyond not responding to her texts or similar.

Why do narcissists want to throw things in your face?

In others, they simply want to have something to throw in your face when you discover they’re still doing ‘that thing’ they promised you they would stop doing. A general exception to this shady practice is the cerebral narcissist, who uses their intelligence to lord over others.