Do narcissists Miss supply?

Narcissists hate losing their supply of attention, so they won’t let you go easily. Prepare for them to promise “to change.” They might suddenly start doing things for you that you’d been complaining about. They may say “you’ll be lost without me,” or “you’ll never find someone like me.”

What happens when narcissists lose control?

The narcissist feels threatened when they lose control; they are afraid they will be exposed for who they really are, and they are petrified of losing their narcissistic supply. They can’t bear this feeling, and to defend themselves against this gut-wrenching emotion, the narcissist will go into attack mode.

Does the NARC miss you?

They may feel very sad that they lost someone and they may genuinely miss that person. It’s because in losing that person they lost access to their “narcissistic supply” (of validation, adoration, or sex). So, no. A true narcissist cannot miss you, not as you or I might understand the term.

What happens when a narcissist dismisses a supply?

The narcissist then starts his vicious attack whereby he sets about devaluing his dismissed Supply.

What happens when a narcissist can’t control you Anymore?

When a Narcissist can’t control you anymore they will fail to find Narcissistic Supply sources, just like a drug addict that can’t find any drugs. This precipitates a narcissistic crisis. The narcissist becomes more desperate and more compulsive in looking for his drug.

Why do narcissists quit after a breakup?

When this begins to happen, the narcissist feels rebuffed, and unable to handle the rejection and conflict, they become even angrier. Because they have been through this process many times before, and recognize that the other person is no longer their source of supply for admiration, they want to quit.

Why does a narcissist reject before he/she gets rejected?

Because they have been through this process many times before, and recognize that the other person is no longer their source of supply for admiration, they want to quit. Also, rather than risk being rejected further, the narcissist wants to move on, so rejects before being rejected. Leaving the other unsuspecting person totally confused.