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Does a narcissist care if they hurt you?
Some may learn to be self-aware in time, and learn to notice when they are hurting you. But this still doesn’t guarantee they will care. “Narcissists are primed to be abusive because they’re so hypersensitive, and they don’t have empathy, and they don’t have object constancy,” Greenberg said.
Can a narcissist care for you?
Bottom Line. Narcissists can sometimes be helpful and caring. However, more often than not, they only pretend to have these qualities. Moreover, even when they act giving and helping, they are not motivated by empathy because they severely lack it, and as a result, their help is often not very productive.
How do you make a narcissist care about you?
10 Tips for Dealing with a Narcissistic Personality
- Accept them.
- Break the spell.
- Speak up.
- Set boundaries.
- Expect pushback.
- Remember the truth.
- Find support.
- Demand action.
Do narcissists care about the people they hurt?
Answer Wiki. Having known narcissists, yes, I think they do care about people they hurt. The exception being malignant narcissists, who, unlike the vast majority of narcissists, have anti-social personality disorder as well as NPD and can be predatory in their behaviour.
How do you know if you love a narcissist?
If you truly love a person, you will openly make suggestions or honest corrections that directly pertain to the negative act to correct the person’s behavior. But with a narcissist, you cannot do that. He/she will hurt you if you go against his/her will. 3. Narcissists have no sense of object constancy
How do you deal with a cruel narcissist in a relationship?
Simple but painful. Leave. You will never be able to beat the narcissist at their own game as you stay in the relationship waiting for them to change their behavior. Their cruelty will eventually turn into tenderness and care. You cannot and will not love them enough to cure them or fix them.
Are narcissists good Pretenders?
Narcissists are good pretenders. They make you believe that they love and care about you. But their feelings are actually pointing in the opposite direction. The reality is that they don’t really feel what you feel and they don’t even care. But because they are very good at hiding their indifference, you may believe that they are concern about you.