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How do I make my borderline feel loved?
To help someone with BPD, first take care of yourself
- Avoid the temptation to isolate.
- You’re allowed (and encouraged) to have a life!
- Join a support group for BPD family members.
- Don’t neglect your physical health.
- Learn to manage stress.
- Listen actively and be sympathetic.
- Focus on the emotions, not the words.
How do you make someone with BPD love you?
Making a relationship work when one of you has BPD
- Learn about BPD. Part of caring for a partner with BPD is understanding what they’re experiencing.
- Seek professional help. Therapy can help people with BPD learn to better process emotions and events that upset them.
- Offer emotional support.
How do women with borderline personality disorder find love?
Relationships for women with traits of BPD usually begin with an excessive longing for love and attention that drives her to find a willing romantic partner. But in order to get her needs met risk-free, she will perform a few mental gymnastics.
How can I control my girlfriend with BPD?
You cannot control her. This is especially true in BPD relationships. If you want your girl to respect you, start by setting her free. Respect and trust are the foundations of any healthy relationship. Most people with poor mindsets become needy and insecure when a woman pulls away.
Is it hard being in a relationship with someone with BPD?
The person they knew and love is still there, somewhere deep down inside. Those moments are what the person longs for.” Still, to Paddy, it is worth it. “I try to see the light,” he says, and he believes that one day his girlfriend will overcome her BPD. “It’s hard being in a relationship with someone who suffers from BPD.
Should I force my girlfriend to do anything I want?
Yes, you and your girlfriend should be a team. You two should grow and prosper together. However, because women are like cats, she will come and go as she pleases. You cannot force a woman to do anything. You cannot control her.