How do I Tell my Wife about my cross-dressing?

Public opinion does matter and she wants to be able to control who knows about your cross-dressing because it also affects her. The best ways to tell your wife: • Take her on a vacation, just the two of you; no kids. Relaxed and away from responsibilities is the time to have an honest discussion on your cross-dressing.

What is it like to be a cross-dresser?

As a cross-dresser you have always known you love to dress, and unlike a transgender person, you don’t want to change your gender, as you are content with being a man, yet this need to wear woman’s clothing and act out your femme self, has created confusion for you since you were a child.

How long did it take you to get over crossdressing rejection?

It took me 9 months to truly get over being utterly rejected by my wife when I revealed to her my returned emotions that I felt over 3 years ago for crossdressing. I believed that if she loved me totally and unconditionally, surely the clothes would make no difference.

Will I abandon my wife if I transition into a woman?

You are not going to transition into a woman, you like being a man and her husband, but after all of these years of hiding, you have to be able to share that you are a cross-dresser and to let out your femme side. You are not abandoning your wife; you are just being who you have been all along.

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How common is crossdressing?

Crossdressing is more common than most people think. Many men have some degree of interest in the garb of the opposite sex, to look at, to feel, or to wear. How deep this interest is, and how far men act on it, varies widely.

Is it possible to find a girlfriend who accepts crossdressing?

Rarely will you find a woman that will accept your crossdressing with open arms and want to be your girlfriend so to speak. Just remember that the crossdressing aspect of your life is not why they chose to be with you.

Is crossdressing a good idea in a relationship?

Crossdressing is not why they got involved with you nor did they choose you because they wanted a girlfriend. So when you change the basic rules and foundation of your relationship don’t expect her to become overjoyed and say “Oh boy I hit the jackpot!

Do you have a loving wife but love to dress as females?

“For some of you dressers out there who have loving wives they come home to but, love to dress as females, might know how hard it is dealing with partners that are aghast to the ‘hobby’. These people know how hard it is having a wife they love, not being accepting or even supportive of this lifestyle.

What does a cis-woman look like?

Women, whether trans or cis, all look different. Some cis-women are tall, have broad shoulders, hands of all sizes and have different facial features. Holding ourselves to a certain standard means that we have expectations as to what a cis-woman “should” look like. Here’s the reality: Some cis-women have large hands. Some are taller than cis-men.