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How do parents deal with gender dysphoria?
Share your concerns – many parents shy away from being open about concerns regarding their child’s gender dysphoria out of fear of hurting the child. Ask questions – asking questions about your teen’s experience of gender dysphoria is a way to communicate openness, interest, and genuine caring.
How do you help a child with gender dysphoria?
For children and teenagers who have gender dysphoria, affirming their gender identity can help reduce distress….Support involves:
- valuing and loving your child for who they are.
- talking with your child about their experiences and needs.
- helping your child affirm their gender and tell others about it if they choose to.
How will you treat persons considering their gender identities?
Where to Begin?
- Do Your Research. There is growing recognition that gender is not a simple binary (male and female), but rather a spectrum.
- Show Respect. Be respectful of an individual’s affirmed gender identity, name, and pronouns.
- Be an ally and advocate.
- Get support if needed.
What age do children identify their own gender?
Most also categorize their own gender by age 3 years. However, because gender stereotypes are reinforced, some children learn to behave in ways that bring them the most reward, despite their authentic gender identity. At ages 5 to 6 years, most children are rigid about gender stereotypes and preferences.
When should children be allowed to make decisions?
As the child enters their teens, parents should start giving the child’s feelings more weight in making decisions. In their mid-to-late teens, children should be allowed to mostly make their own decisions, with parents providing advice and a veto if necessary.
What should I do if my child is struggling with gender identity?
Your child needs a respectful, knowledgeable doctor. Talk to your child’s doctor about your child’s gender identity and behaviors and ask for help. Your doctor might recommend working with a specialist. If you’re having trouble finding a doctor with appropriate training, seek a recommendation from a support group.
What can I do if my child is a gender diverse child?
Connect with other families who have a gender-diverse child. This can help reduce any isolation you and your child might be experiencing. Look for an in-person or online support group. Work with your child’s school and teachers. Talk to them about how to stop or prevent bias and bullying before it starts.