How do you feel when your mother is not talking to you?

You are 14 and your mother isn’t talking to you. You argue every day. You are angry she is a smoker of cigarettes. You feel she isn’t spending money on things you need.

How do I repair my relationship with my mother?

Your mother is now uncomfortable around you and will be uncomfortable for a while. To repair the relationship, continue to make calls on a scheduled basis — every Weds and Sunday for example. When she eventually picks up the phone, don’t rehash the earlier conversation.

Why don’t I talk to my family anymore?

Like most, I’ve gone through periods of time not speaking to a family member. Sometimes it’s because there is a disagreement and space is needed. Sometimes it’s simply because life has gotten in the way and time is hard to find. Other times, a relationship has had its season and it’s time to move on, with no hard feelings.

What should I do if my mom is acting out?

The first thing you should do is to analyze why your Mom is acting in such a manner. To attempt to empathize – to place yourself in her shoes. If it is not as a result of any action you did which offended her, then think about her own family history, her own insecurities and perhaps, even her jealousy of you.

What should I do if I don’t have a mother?

Do what’s best for you and your mental health. If it means you be the bigger person and reach out then do so. If it means you focus on yourself and your self growth without your mother then do that. Be selfish when it comes to yourself and your happiness and peace of mind.

Is it okay if my other mother calls me son?

Its other mother’s calling you son (or daughter), and that’s okay to accept. OP, my dear, dear kindred soul, you had no say in your birth or childhood. What happened to us as children cannot be our faults, even though we’ll always struggle with blaming ourselves, because we had no power in those situations.