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How to Flirt (Even If You’re Awkward or Shy)
- Smile.
- Keep eye contact and lean in.
- Ask questions.
- Touch them lightly.
- Dress to impress.
- Don’t underestimate a good pickup line; just understand what a good one is.
- Don’t hang with a huge group of friends.
- Focus your attention.
How do you make shy people talk small?
6 tips to make small talk less excruciating for introverts
- Ask people about themselves. Even shy people like to talk about themselves.
- Throw in a couple of unique questions.
- Share interesting tidbits.
- If possible, bring a wing person.
- Seek out fellow loners.
- Don’t worry about being smooth.
Why are we socially awkward and what does it mean?
Psychologist Ty Tashiro notes in his book Awkward: The Science of Why We’re Socially Awkward and Why That’s Awesome that socially awkward people tend to view the world around them in different ways. They may be less likely to notice social cues or pick up on emotions but feel more driven toward systematic or scientific approaches.
Why do socially awkward people avoid controversial topics?
Socially awkward people may have missed the lesson on this because they tend to be the ones to make you cringe when they bring up controversial topics in conversation. Topics that people feel passionately about should be avoided rather than bringing up feelings of anger when one person’s view is different than another person’s.
While people with autism can be socially awkward, socially awkward people do not always have autism. Human interaction is undoubtedly a curious and complex phenomenon. Those who seek to better understand its nuances can get the training they need by earning the right degree.
There’s nothing wrong with being socially awkward. Whether you recognize your social awkwardness or not, it generally isn’t bad or harmful, unless it bothers you or keeps you from doing things you want to do. But if you feel like you’re doing just fine, don’t feel pressured to change.
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