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How do you help someone who needs help?
For example:
- Listen. Simply giving someone space to talk, and listening to how they’re feeling, can be really helpful in itself.
- Offer reassurance. Seeking help can feel lonely, and sometimes scary.
- Stay calm.
- Be patient.
- Try not to make assumptions.
- Keep social contact.
What do you do when you need to talk to someone?
If You Need to Talk to Someone, Reach Out
- Talk with Someone You Know and with Whom You Feel Comfortable.
- Talk with Someone You Don’t Know Who Has Been Trained to Help.
- Talk with a Mental Health Professional.
- Find a Counseling or Health Center.
- Find a Support Group.
- Go Local.
How does talking to someone help you?
There is a word that captures how talking helps—catharsis. Talking leads to a catharsis, which means a feeling of relief. The charged feelings within us become less charged. Nothing has changed that caused the suffering in our lives, but talking has drained off some of the pain and this brings relief.
What do you do when you need help?
In these cases, your first step should be to reach out to a crisis line or help line. In the United States, call 1-800-273-8255 for free and confidential support if you are in distress or crisis. If you are experiencing a medical emergency then you should call 911 or your local emergency number.
Are you not responsible for fixing anyone else?
However, few people realize that not only are they not responsible for fixing anybody else, but it’s actually impossible altogether. Here are a few things you need to know if you’re one of those people who believes that carrying a load will relieve someone else’s… rather than just burden you both. 1.
Can you fix people?
You cannot fix people, you can only love them. You are not a better person for being able to determine how worthy someone is of love, or how desperately they need to change. Your character is determined by how much kindness you extend to them regardless. Want more articles like this?
When are people willing to offer help?
A robust field of research indicates when people are willing to offer help. First, people are much less compassionate and less inclined to offer assistance to others when part of a group in comparison to when alone.
What makes people willing to assist others?
Unfortunately, willingness to assist others is also a function of many superficial associations between the helper and the person needing help, such as the perceived degree of physical, intellectual, racial, and gender similarities (Mallozzi, McDermott, & Kayson, 1990), as well as perceptions of in-group membership (Stürmer, Snyder, & Omoto, 2005).