How do you ignore a jealous relative?
Avoid taking it personally.
- Keep doing what you’re doing, and don’t allow others to stop you.
- Focus on people that support you.
- Remind yourself that they’re jealous because you are doing something well.
When a family member is jealous of you?
If your aunt or cousin is constantly calling out your flaws or saying negative things to you, this is a sign that they are jealous. People who are insecure about themselves try and bring others down to make themselves feel better. They will find fault in almost anything. Try not to let them get to you.
How do you deal with a jealous relative?
You can still love them from a distance. Some say that a person should call a family meeting to discuss the jealousy issue, but a lot of times it only makes the drama last longer. Bledsoe says, “Occasionally, a healthy relative may just need to say out loud how insecure or overshadowed she or he feels, and be met with compassion.
Does a jealous family member Still Love You?
Although your jealous family member appears to no longer love or care about you, based on their behavior towards you the truth is they probably still do; it’s just hidden beneath all their conflicted feelings. And despite their actions, it is very likely you still care about them too, even if you no longer particularly like them.
How do I stop being so negative towards my family?
With family members in particular, other people can trigger negativity inside you, or trigger shared negativity that exists within many members of the group – which you can then transcend using awareness and nonresistance (surrender/acceptance) Give up any need to control your mother or grandmother, and don’t try to control your own feelings.
Is Jealousy making you a toxic person?
Jealousy can be a beast, turning you into a toxic person. I know jealousy is wrong, but I was also a part of the problem. Who am I fooling, I can still be a little jealous at times.