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How do you let an INTJ know you care?
Here are some suggestions that don’t run counter to our personality type.
- Subtly do something nice for someone. When INTJs express emotions, they tend to do it in a kinesthetic way.
- Be present.
- Focus on the happy.
- Name your feelings.
- Mirror others.
- Tell a story.
- Let it out in private.
- Touch and feel.
Do INTJs care about their friends?
INTJs are fiercely loyal people who will stand by their friends and loved ones. When they care for someone they really do take this commitment seriously, and believe in standing by their friends. They are the type of people who will protect their friends, and stand by them when no one else will.
How do you know if an INTJ considers you a friend?
Generally speaking, it is likely that they like you more than a friend if: They are soft on the eyes around you. Their tone and demenor are “gentler” around you than with others. They make an effort to spend a lot of time around you alone.
How do you make an INTJ open up to you?
Give them the time they need. INTJs hate feeling rushed to do anything — especially when it comes to showing emotions. Let them take things at their own pace and avoid nagging them that they never open up. Begging them to talk to you about serious topics will only make them retract even further.
Why is it so hard for INTJs to make friends?
It’s no secret that INTJs have a hard time making friends. Most INTJs would rather spend their time acquiring knowledge than wasting time with irrational social rituals such as small talk, gift giving and reciprocity. This may cause other personality types to perceive them as cold, distant and standoffish.
Who are INTJs most compatible with?
INTJs Best Match For a Romantic Relationship. Taken from the MBTI perspective, the best INTJ match would be ENTJs, ENFPs, or ENTPs. The best match for the INTJs would be personalities that show high constructive reasoning and empathy, but at the same time, they are patient enough not to push things.
How do you make friends with an INTJ girl?
If you’re friends with an INTJ, don’t just assume they don’t want to be included in something. Invite them and give them the option whether or not to hang out. They might turn you down, considering how much they love their alone time, but don’t make them feel guilty if that happens — and keep asking.
What do intjs like to talk about in a friendship?
If you want to talk about the meaning of life, the purpose of religion, politics, or any “taboo” thing that’s not a proper dinner-table conversation, then an INTJ is a friend you can count on. INTJs are extremely goal-oriented. One of the things they look for (and provide) in a friendship is direction and motivation to reach goals.
What is it like to date an INTJ?
That’s perfectly fine with an INTJ. They are one of the few types who you can sit with for an hour, maybe reading a book, or just relaxing and thinking, and you will still have had a wonderful time together. They love peace and quiet and won’t begrudge you for needing some. INTJs hate surface-level conversation and shallow topics.
Do INTJ’s lie a lot?
INTJs have no patience for manipulation or sugarcoating (in fact, they are one and the same to an INTJ). If you want a friend who will be direct and tell you the truth, an INTJ is your man…or woman. If they respect you, they won’t lie to you. It’s as simple as that. Don’t feel like making small talk? Don’t feel like being the life of the party?