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How do you love someone despite their flaws?
Here are some tips for becoming more accepting.
- Reevaluate the seriousness of your partner’s flaws.
- Acknowledge your own flaws.
- Consider why particular flaws irk you so much.
- Consider whether your partner should be required to value what you value.
- Look at your practical options.
- Summing Up.
What are flaws in relationships?
Inconsistent behaviour, lying, misplaced anger, and abuse of any form are no-nos in a relationship. But, all too often, we’re more picky than we should be. In fact, there are some flaws you should consider yourself blessed for!
How do you love your flaws?
- Acknowledge what’s bothering you. Without understanding the root of your concerns, it’s hard to come to terms with your flaws.
- Appreciate your individuality. Your flaws may make you different from everybody else, but that’s a good thing!
- Put things in perspective.
- Google it.
- Don’t compare yourself.
Why do I point out my partners flaws?
By pointing out flaws, you hope that your partner will let go of the things that you don’t like and become more the person you want him or her to be. Your partner might be a person who hates being controlled – hates being told what to do and how to be.
How do I stop being a nitpicker?
How to Stop Nitpicking in a Relationship
- Ask yourself why you feel compelled to nitpick, nag, or complain.
- Think about the damage you are doing to another by engaging in these patterns.
- Taking a step back to look at your own patterns.
- Consider a more effective approach.
- Respect your partner’s differences.
How do you fall in love with someone?
The quote concludes by saying that instead, we come, or fall into, love by seeing an imperfect person perfectly. You see the flaws, and you see them clearly. But we love them anyway. When we are infatuated, we often miss the flaws, but by the time we are well and truly in love, we have cleared our eyes, and are seeing them for the human they are.
Do you love someone even in their imperfections?
You’ll love this person, even in his/her imperfections. And this person will do the same for you. Because that’s love. It’s not keeping wagers of all the ways you don’t measure up. It’s not expecting people to never make mistakes. It’s loving someone for who they are, including, and in spite of, their every blemish.
Are We flawed people looking for a perfect relationship?
We are flawed people looking for someone whose flaws match well with ours. We’re broken souls searching for wholeness and hoping to find someone along the same path whose wholeness can combine with ours and make something even more beautiful. And in all this mess, we can’t expect ourselves to be perfect, or to find perfect.
Is it possible to fall in love with someone without being perfect?
Again, nothing will be perfect, but with a common core and a common direction, one can find appreciation and love. And as long as you were able to see the person perfectly, that is see and understand all their flaws, there is no reason to believe it won’t last.