How do you respond to hurtful people?
The following are three tips for dealing with bullies and hurtful people.
- Recognize that their words are a reflection of who they are, rather then who you are.
- Don’t respond with cruelty or hate.
- Practice Self-Compassion.
- You Are Not For Everyone.
Why do people say such hateful things?
Often well-meaning people say hurtful things because they’re at a loss for words. Not knowing the right thing to say, they may turn to canned statements, like “don’t worry about it” or “you’ll be fine”—the kinds of statements that tend to be least helpful in difficult times.
Why do people say hurtful things when they are hurt?
Often times, people say hurtful things because they have been hurt as well. They may look tough but deep inside..behind that mask.. there’s a person who was hurt and may still be hurting. People who are hurt are the people who needs help the most.
Why do people use bad words to hurt others?
It’s because they use words to hurt others, and they discharge the real weight of their language on to those unfortunate enough to listen; people say hurtful things to them because they recognize that that’s the only way to get them to think, and still they complain about the burden of a verb as they hurl sticks and stones…
Why do men try to hurt you with their words?
Yes, this is a very passive aggressive way of stopping you in your tracks, but sometimes men do not have the communication skills or the emotional skill to tell you what is really on their mind. Another reason that the man you love will try to hurt you with their words is because of their own insecurities.
What are some catchy quotes about dealing with hurt from others?
Hurt people hurt people. It’s a popular quote most people know when referencing painful relationships. Yet, there doesn’t seem to be any catchy quotes for dealing with hurt from that person you trusted. I know because I looked and failed.