How do you talk to an old friend after years?
6 Tips for Making Conversation with an Old Friend
- Show a little love.
- Start with small talk.
- Tread lightly over old news.
- Get out of the past tense.
- Don’t be afraid of a little controversy.
- Follow the flow and be ready for anything.
Should I message old friends?
It’s nerve-racking, but therapist Jennifer Vandegriff, LCSW says you shouldn’t let awkwardness, pride, nerves, or even guilt stop you from texting an old friend and seeing what’s up. Chances are they’ll be happy to hear from you, or at the very least will be flattered that you reached out.
How do you deal with a friend you don’t know anymore?
“Hopefully he or she will [want to reconnect] but if he or she does not, understand and reach out to other old friends, strengthen the connections you already have currently with your circle of friends, or even work on starting new friendships,” Yager said. “Fortunately, you can start and cultivate friendships at any age and stage in your life.”
Should you pressure an old friend to talk to you?
Adding demands or pressure on an old friend may not be necessarily helpful. Think about what you have to offer them. It shouldn’t be on this friend to entertain you or cheer you up, particularly if you haven’t talked in a while.
What to say when an old friend wants to hear from you?
“Until proven otherwise, assume your old friend wants to hear from you,” Yager said. But it’s OK to prepare for the possibility that things may not work out how you’d like. Your friend might write back with emojis and exclamation points saying she’s glad you reached out and has been meaning to do the same.
What to text old friends when you miss them?
If you miss someone who used to be in your life, then scan through these 30 sample texts to send to old friends, choose the one that feels right, and fire that thing off. “I know it’s been a while, but I just wanted to see how you’re doing.”