Is being too much kind a bad thing?
It actually is a desirable human trait. However, some people (for various reasons) are overly nice; they will be at the beck and call of everyone, put up with abuse and disrespect, and always put their well-being aside for others. Being overly nice has tremendous and long-lasting negative effects.
How do I stop being naive and nice?
Here are a few tips to help you say goodbye to being gullible and get a bit more clued up, without becoming disillusioned.
- Think before you speak or act.
- Don’t be afraid of sitting on the fence.
- Be over-cautious.
- Be more present.
- Listen attentively.
- Do the research.
- Continue to be trusting of other people.
Is being kind a bad thing?
Being kind certainly isn’t a bad thing, it’s just something to watch out for if you are made to feel unhappy for the sake of others. I am going to discuss some truths about people who may be too kind and putting other’s wants and needs above their own.
Can you ever be too nice to others?
Most people would say that you can never be too nice, and this is normally accurate. Everyone wants to be treated with respect and kindness. Most of us will also want to treat others that way too!
Do you resent the people you are nice to?
You may begin to resent the people you are nice to. Resentment is a poisonous feeling that can slowly erode the foundation of friendships and trust. It often starts with a disproportionate exchange between the affected parties.
Is it possible to stop being a please pleaser?
As mentioned before, this does not have to mean that you stop being a nice person or helping others, but it can mean you won’t be taken advantage of anymore and can keep your own time to yourself. So keep reading to discover the top 5 ways to stop being a please pleaser today…