Is it normal to not feel love all the time?

Is It Normal to Lose Romantic Feelings? It’s totally normal to have times where you feel more or less in love with your partner. At the same time, it’s painful to have stillnesses in a relationship that leave you feeling lost or doubting its future.

Why do I react negatively to love?

Being loved arouses anxiety because it threatens long-standing psychological defenses formed early in life in relation to emotional pain and rejection, therefore leaving a person feeling more vulnerable.

Why can’t I Feel Love?

I believe there are 5 key reasons we keep ourselves from truly feeling love, respect and appreciation — why we block ourselves from letting it in, and healing from it. Here are the top five reasons we stop ourselves from soaking in love and appreciation: #1: We have grown distrustful of what people say to us, especially if it’s kind.

Why is it so hard to love someone who is unreliable?

You’re flaky and unreliable. Flaky people are hard to love because you can never depend on them. If your partner, lover, or friend can’t rely on you when they’re in a bind, it puts stress on your relationship and makes it exceptionally challenging for someone to really love you. If you want people to love you, show them that you’re dependable.

Why is it hard to love someone who doesn’t know you?

There’s something freeing about being dynamic and a little mysterious, but in relationships, it can make you seem untrustworthy and sketchy. In turn, that makes you hard to love because your partner doesn’t really know who you are or where they stand with you.

Why do people who can’t love want their loved ones to stay?

There is another reason people who are unable to love may want their lover to stay. Although they are not bad people, deep down they struggle with an implicit form of resentment. They don’t feel it. But below the level of conscious awareness they feel unloved, worthless and resentful.