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Is it OK to lie to save yourself?
Lying is OK in two general situations, to protect yourself or someone else from immediate danger — e.g., your friend’s abusive spouse asks if you know where your friend is — and to protect someone’s feelings. But even then, a strategic half-truth always beats a lie.
What is it called when you lie to protect someone’s feelings?
On the other hand, lies told to help another person or to protect someone’s feelings tend to be good for relationships, Dunbar said. Psychologists call this pro-social lying, but it’s more commonly known as telling a white lie or a fib. [ Understanding the 10 Most Destructive Human Behaviors]
What are the consequences of telling lies?
The consequences of lying are not as simple as they might seem. People often think that lies breed contempt and guilt, but they do much more. They foster relationships, build trust, destroy social networks, create social networks, make people more creative, and influence how often other people lie.
When is it permissible to lie to someone?
Whenever life, honour and property of someone else or one, are be in a dangerous situation, and danger can be avoided by lying, man is allowed to lie. For example, if an oppressor intends to kill a Muslim asks you to report his whereabouts, it is obligatory to lied even if one has to take a false oath…
Why do we lie to ourselves and other people?
We lie to other people and accidentally lie to ourselves in the process. By saying things that aren’t true, you’re essentially betraying your inner self and ignoring your real feelings or intentions. Try to take a breath before jumping in and agreeing to do something.
How do I stop lying to myself?
Before you can begin to stop lying to yourself, you need to be able to identify instances where you are not being entirely honest. Self-deception is not always easy to spot because we are good at it. We want to believe the lie because it is often easier to live with (in the short term) than the truth.
Is it true that everyone lies?
Everyone lies, but people who lie as easily as they breathe are dangerous and you should be aware of their presence at all times. Because if they can lie this easily, then your feelings and well-being won’t be a high concern for them.