Is it wrong to ask your girlfriend to stop smoking?

Smoking can kill relationships: but also asking someone to give up. Asking the other to stop smoking can seriously damage those relationships that appear idyllic from the outside. It is a dangerous journey, and those who choose it must be aware that each result will mark a point of no return in the relationship.

Is it wrong to ask someone to stop smoking?

Some of the health complications associated with breathing in smoke from cigarettes include heart disease, stroke, lung cancer and even death. So, you definitely are not out of line to ask him not to smoke around you.

How do you ask someone to not smoke?

It’s not necessary to criticize someone for smoking in the same breath that you ask them not to smoke around you. You also don’t need to offer an explanation for why you’re asking someone to stop smoking around you. Simply saying, “I’d appreciate it if you didn’t smoke around me,” is sufficient.

How do you convince someone to stop smoking?

Do praise them for trying to quit, and for whatever length of time (days, weeks, or months) of not smoking. Do remind them that they didn’t fail – they are learning how to quit – and you’re going to be there for them the next time and as many times as it takes. Do encourage them to try again.

What should I say to my boyfriend to stop smoking?

Your boyfriend knows that smoking is bad for him, and he probably wants to quit already. Thus, it won’t really be helpful to recite facts about diseases, life expectancy, etc. In fact, telling someone to stop smoking just makes them do it more. Instead, you may want to focus on trends in people’s behavior and the role of addiction in smoking.

Do men want a girl who smokes?

It is worth noting that smoking does facilitate social interaction in bars and nightclubs. You can always go to the smoking area and strike up a converstion almost immediately. But the number of men that want a girl who smokes is negligible. So like I said at the outset, do what you want.

Should I tell my boyfriend that I Smoke a lot?

If he is willing to risk mentioning it, he is probably not very attracted to you. If you only smoke a couple cigarettes a week, it probably isn’t a big deal either way from a smell and taste perspective – assuming you brush your teeth afterwards.

What can I do to help my partner quit smoking?

The next step would be to work together to find an agreeable goal and follow it. If your partner has difficulty reducing or quitting, you may encourage him or her to seek formal treatment at a local community health center.