Is love a choice or does it just happen?

It fluctuates, depending on where you are in your life and what you’re struggling with. Sometimes it is easy to love; sometimes it is extremely difficult. But at the end of the day, it’s always a choice. Although love varies, it also deepens.

Is love a choice Why or why not?

Love is a decision you choose daily to show your partner you love them. It’s not about having a feeling it’s about recognizing you love your partner regardless of how you feel and showing your partner that you love them.

What does it mean to fall in and out of love?

To gradually lose the deep feeling of love (for someone or each other) in a romantic relationship until it is gone. Modeled on the phrase “fall in love.” Nothing dramatic led to the end of our relationship—we just fell out of love with each other.

Can you fall in and out of love?

You cannot turn on or turn off your feeling for someone. In a long-term relationship, this feeling can be a finicky muse, inspiring you to be a better person, or leave you feeling demotivated at other times. So yes, it is possible to fall in and out of love, repeatedly, with a single person.

Why true love is a choice?

It is a choice to see the good in our partner every day, rather than focusing on the negative things that bother us. We have to accept them and love them as they are. If we go into a relationship thinking we can change someone, we are setting our relationship and ourselves up to fail.

Is falling in love sort of a choice?

“I believe that falling in love is sort of a choice. As long as all the correct elements are there, then it’s a bit of a leap/choice by the individual. I think that the partner needs to be an appropriate match (whatever that means for you) and that there needs to be a good dose of chemistry.

Why do I want to fall in love?

The only reason you want to fall in love is because the idea of love makes you feel all nice and fuzzy. No love is entirely unselfish. The act of falling in love is completely egocentric and shallow. Unless you understand this, you will never fully understand love.

What is the difference between falling in love and staying in love?

“Falling in love is a feeling, but staying in love is a choice and a commitment. Being in love is fun, romantic and thrilling but maintaining a loving relationship can take a lot of work and compromise.

Why do we not want to understand love?

We don’t want to understand love because we enjoy the idea of it. The only reason you want to fall in love is because the idea of love makes you feel all nice and fuzzy. No love is entirely unselfish. The act of falling in love is completely egocentric and shallow.