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What are some revenge tactics?
FREE REVENGE IDEAS
- Create a web site or publish a book belittling your target.
- Sell your targets prized car or other possession on eBay for a couple of dollars.
- Put up posters or pay for an advertisement that highlights your targets wrongdoings.
- Send out fake baby shower invitations.
Does revenge backfire?
Why does revenge backfire? Because focusing over and over again on your ex, obsessing about your wounds or revenge only leads to more obsessing and more raging. You get more of whatever you put your attention on. A vengeful lack of forgiveness will also lead to less personal awareness and growth for you.
How do you get back at someone who humiliated you?
Here are seven suggestions, based on my work as a therapist and current research on the topic.
- Take your time to respond.
- Don’t take it personally.
- Get out of the situation.
- Understand the other person’s motivation.
- Know that you are not alone.
- Be careful about retaliating.
- Find a way to move forward.
Is revenge right or wrong?
Right or wrong, revenge has always been a very basic part of the human emotional spectrum. Inummerable sagas, poems, stories & movies have been written based on revenge. But that’s the thing, it’s all fictional, right?
What is the difference between trust and revenge?
Trust is important in any relationship and critical for cooperative societies. When you are thinking about revenge, it usually means you believe trust has been broken. Remember, while the anticipation of revenge may feel pleasurable, the actual carrying out of revenge brings little satisfaction and may create more problems and suffering.
Does revenge increase or decrease anger?
Carlsmith suggests that the reason revenge increases anger rather than decreasing it is because of ruminations. When people don’t get revenge, they tend to trivialize the event by telling themselves that because they didn’t act on their vengeful feelings, it wasn’t a big deal.
How do I overcome my urge to take revenge?
Accept your urges and thoughts of revenge as a basic human response related to trust. Trust is important in any relationship and critical for cooperative societies. When you are thinking about revenge, it usually means you believe trust has been broken.