What do you do when someone says something that hurts you?

You simply let it go. Amazingly, if that same person had said something hurtful to you or about you, you may never forget their name or what they said. In order to let it go, some people are able to accept and release what was said as something in the past (like a bloody nose) that has no relevance in their present.

What does it mean when someone says you are Wrong?

It implies that you’re wrong, overreacting, or lying. Abusers do this to turn things around and blame the victim and deny or minimize their abusive words or actions. The most common forms of invalidation include blaming, judging, denying, and minimizing your feelings or experiences.

Why do people yell at you when they are in pain?

In that brief moment they are yelling out hurtful words, their minds become distracted enough to override their concentration of their pain. It may help to point out to them that this process is understandable; however, their behavior toward you is unacceptable.

What is the power of a hurtful word?

Hurtful words carry great power. They have the potential to shove somebody into a downward spiral of self-doubt and destruction, or they can jolt that person out of their comfort zone and onto a quest of self-discovery and improvement. Sometimes, there is some truth in the words.

What should you do if someone makes an offensive comment?

Consult the person offended. If an offensive comment is not about you personally, you may want to consult with the person potentially offended before stepping in. After an offensive comment, scan the room to see if you notice anyone flinching or frowning. Later, you can ask the person who seemed upset if you should say something.

How do you deal with rude comments on social media?

Addressing the Comment Have a script ahead of time. Talk to your friend privately. Bring up the issue calmly. Treat your friend as a potential ally. Share why the comment bothered you. Criticize the comment, not the person. Stand your ground.

What to do when a friend says something offensive to you?

Offensive comments are always jarring, especially when they come from someone you love and trust. If a friend said something offensive to you, you are within your right to address it. Carefully evaluate the situation to decide on your approach and then calmly and respectfully explain the issue to your friend.