What do you do when your best friend is cheating on her boyfriend?

9 Principles to Remember:

1. This is her crisis, not yours.
2. Nurture yourself and your relationships.
3. Don’t make it personal.
4. Draw your boundaries.
5. You are her friend, not her counselor.
6. Acknowledge that she is still a good person.
7. Her feelings are real.
8. Be mindful of our judgment.

What should I do if my friend is cheating?

If you have cheating friends this is what to do about it.

1. Encourage Him To Talk. You are there to help, not condemn.
2. Confront The Problem. When we justify our actions we weaken the conscience.
3. He Needs To Cut It Off.
4. Encourage Him To Confess.
5. Encourage Him To Pursue Rehabilitation and Reconciliation.

How do you console someone who has been cheated on?

1. “What Do You Need Right Now?” Shutterstock.
2. “Whatever You’re Feeling Is OK And Normal.”
3. “This Isn’t About You.”
4. “You Don’t Have To Make Any Big Decisions Now.”
5. “I’m Here.”
6. “You Will Be OK.”
7. “Let Me Know If I Can Do Anything For You.”
8. “Here, I Brought You Ice Cream.”

What to do if you have a crush on your friend’s boyfriend?

A Therapist Breaks Down What To Do If You Have Chemistry With Your Friend’s Partner

1. Tell a different friend or a family member about your feelings. Giphy.
2. Keep your distance from him or her. Giphy.
3. Consider the consequences of cheating. Giphy.
4. Focus on finding your own special someone. Giphy.

How can I Help my Friend deal with her cheating boyfriend?

You are doing the right thing by telling her. Reading about how others have coped with similar situations can help your friend deal with her cheating boyfriend – and so can expert advice. Reading articles such as What to Do When You Find Out Your Wife Cheated on You may help.

Should I tell my friend he is being wronged?

On the one hand, you feel your friend is being wronged, and we don’t like seeing wrong being done, whatever we feel the response should be—at the very least we want it to stop, especially when the one being hurt is someone we care about. But on the other hand, telling our friend would likely hurt him or her in some way.

Why did my friend leave an anonymous note in his girlfriend’s mailbox?

One of my volunteers recently told me that his friend was cheating on his girlfriend, and he decided he needed to tell the girlfriend – even though he was closer to his friend than the girlfriend. He left an anonymous note in her mailbox, because he couldn’t stand the thought of telling the girlfriend in person.