What do you do when your husband says your fat?

Consider stepping away and saying, “I need a moment after what you just said.” Avoid engaging in further conversation until you’ve stepped away and had some space. Take 5 deep breaths. Visualize something positive in your life, rather than focusing on what your husband just said.

How do you tell my partner she is overweight?

Instead, try to be considerate of your partner’s feelings and convey your concern with a more subtle touch. Rather than saying, ‘you look fat’, mention how you feel they could work at being more healthier.

What should I do if my husband calls me fat?

Has your husband called you fat? Rather than responding in anger, figure out how to talk with him about what he said in a calm and patient way. If he continues to act rude, defensive, or controlling, evaluate if you feel safe and respected in this relationship.

What does it mean when your boyfriend calls you fat?

Even if your weight isn’t an issue, when a boyfriend calls you fat, they are messaging to you that – in their eyes – you’re not good enough. And that hurts like a motherfucker! Now, there are different ways of saying ‘ you should maybe lose some weight ‘.

Should your partner say you’ve gotten fat?

A partner should never say that you have gotten fat, nor should anyone say this to anyone you love.” Frankly, I fall somewhere in between the extremes. After all, who better than a spouse to care about you enough to venture into such treacherous territory?

How can I talk to my husband about his weight problem?

Context and delivery clearly matter. Jessica Fishman Levinson, an RD who specializes in healthy weight management, told me: “There are better ways for the husband to have approached the topic to be more sensitive. He should approach it like other relationship issues, with ‘I’ statements, rather than ‘you’ ones.