What if my spouse is not a virgin on their wedding day?

This isn’t personal to the spouse who was not a virgin on their wedding day, but it’s still based on the fear of “not enough”. While this fear might seem justified, fear cannot coexist with the power of God’s Spirit. Perfect love casts out fear (1 John 4:18).

Do virginal spouses feel betrayed by their partner’s past?

It is important to note that while virginal spouses might feel betrayed by their partner’s sexual past, their partner is often just as broken over that same sin. They wish they could do it over again.

Is virginity God’s goal?

While God has set standards for sex and expects purity from His followers, virginity itself is not His goal. God’s goal is holiness, which is why the question is not “ How far is too far? ” but “How holy can I be?” When my husband and I married, I was a virgin – and he was not.

What are the consequences of sexual sin?

Sexual sin comes with consequences. One of those consequences is this battle against insecurity in the lives of both spouses. When one or both spouses give in to insecurity – continually questioning the love, faithfulness, or desire of their spouse – the foundation of trust is chipped away.

Should I be worried about losing my virginity?

Calling our virgin brides, happy wedding day! You’ve probably been looking forward to this and we are here for you. Losing your virginity is a strange experience no matter the circumstances; It can be weird, awkward, and uncomfortable. But, when you take it slowly and listen to your body, it can also be beautiful. There’s nothing to worry about.

Does marrying a woman who isn’t a virgin leave scars?

Here is a comment from a man who made the mistake of marrying a woman who wasn’t a virgin. Yes, it can leave many scars.