What to do if you think your friend stole something from you?

Draw clear boundaries regarding future behavior and restitution. It’s OK to let her know that you won’t trust her until she can prove that she won’t steal again. Explain that you will end the friendship if she repeats the offense. If you aren’t extending forgiveness, you could end the friendship immediately.

What should I do if my friend stole something from me?

Depending on the depth of your friendship, the item stolen and her apology, you could maintain the friendship by treating her with compassion, suggests Schoeberlein. Draw clear boundaries regarding future behavior and restitution. It’s OK to let her know that you won’t trust her until she can prove that she won’t steal again.

Why does my friend steal from me?

Understanding why she stole from you could help you decide whether to keep her as a friend. Some people steal to prove they can get away with, to exercise power when they feel powerless or to compensate for things they are missing, according to psychologist Michael Thompson in “Eight-Year-Old Boy Stealing” on his website.

What should I do if my daughter’s friend is stealing from me?

You need to confront your friend and hold her accountable for her actions, according to the Boys Town National Hotline staff in “My Daughter’s Friend Is Stealing Items and Money From Our House” for Education.com. If you catch her red-handed, she might not lie to you about the theft, but without definitive proof she could lie to cover up the theft.

How do you write a letter to someone who stole money?

Explain your emotional response, suggests psychologist Carl Pickhardt in “Adolescence and Stealing from Family” for “Psychology Today.” Use “I” messages, such as “When I discovered money missing from my wallet, I felt violated and unsafe” or “I wondered how I could be friends with someone who steals from me.”