What to do if your daughter tells you she wants to be a boy?

The best thing you can do right now is to hold their gender lightly. This doesn’t mean don’t take it seriously, rather, give them space to explore. If one week they’re a “he” and another they’re a “she”, go with it, use the pronouns they want, try out the name they want. Let them explore and try things on for size.

At what age can you start hormone therapy?

If used in an adolescent, hormone therapy typically begins at age 16. Ideally, treatment starts before the development of secondary sex characteristics so that teens can go through puberty as their identified gender. Gender affirming hormone therapy is not typically used in children.

How long does it take for MtF hormones to take effect?

This will begin one to three months after starting treatment. The maximum effect will occur within one to two years.

What should I do if my child wants to live with Me?

Chances are, it took a lot for your child to tell you that they want to live with their other parent. Don’t brush the request off. Let your child know that you’ve heard the request, listened to their reasoning, and will give it some thought. Once you’ve had a few days to think about your child’s request, bring the topic up again.

What happens when your child wants to live with your ex?

Separation and divorce can be tough for kids and parents. If your child announces that they want to live with your ex, it can bring up a mix of emotions—even if the announcement doesn’t come as a total surprise.

How do I deal with my ex when my child wants custody?

If your ex is in the picture, your child will probably bring their wishes up to them, as well (if they have not already). Instead of fighting it, let your ex know that your child has vocalized this request and set up a time to discuss it. Working on having a healthy co-parenting relationship will help you put your child’s needs first.

Is there a slow and careful assessment of trans kids?

Contrary to the myth promulgated by the transition promoters, at least in the United States, there is no slow and careful assessment of these kids who profess to be trans.