What to say to reconnect with an ex?

Here are 20 sample texts to send to your ex so you can reconnect — and maybe even get back together.

• “Hey.
• “I just ate a Choco Taco and thought of you.”
• “Hey, this is random but I’m painting my bathroom and wanted to ask you a couple questions.”
• “I’ve been thinking a lot about you and our relationship.

How long to wait before reconnect with an ex?

Breakups are hard, but even though it can feel like reaching back out to your ex will fix things, Brenner advises waiting a while before doing so — at least a couple of months.

Should I keep in touch with my ex?

Most experts agree: you should not reach out to your ex unless you hope to salvage a treasured friendship. The impulse to reach out to an ex, whether it is because you still have feelings for them, you are seeking comfort and familiarity, or you simply want to know how they are doing, is often a bad idea.

How to get your ex back after no contact?

After a period of no contact has passed, it will be time to reach out to your ex. Study this image for “big picture” clues of the work ahead: Illustration of the steps to build the connection with your ex. Get your ex back after no contact by making incremental RIGHT moves.

Is communication sabotaging your attempts to get back with your ex?

And yet, it’s quite the opposite. During my coaching sessions with people just like you who are hoping to get back with an ex; I often refer to the saying: “Communication is the foundation of a relationship, but it can sabotage an attempt at restarting one.”

How do you prove to your ex that you’re accepting his breakup?

If your opportunities to interact on a daily basis are limited, you will have to condense your ideas so that you can prove to your ex that you’ve understood your mistakes and that you have now accepted the breakup.

How to manage proper communication with your ex?

In order to manage proper communication with your ex you will have to remain in control of your emotions and resist the urge to go too fast. I know how hard it can be to make your ex want to take you back, because you are afraid of losing them.