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What to say when someone forgive you?
Try saying: “Thank you, I needed to hear this apology. I really am hurt.” Or, “I appreciate your apology. I need time to think about it, and I need to see a change in your actions before I can move forward with you.” Don’t attack the transgressor, as hard as it may be to hold back in the moment.
How do you deal with someone not forgiving you?
How Do You Deal With Someone Who Won’t Forgive You
- Fully forgive yourself and you won’t need their forgiveness.
- Think about how you might have apologized.
- Forgive yourself first.
- Allow them the time to process.
- Make a plan to come back to them at some time but keep moving on and keep healing.
Do people forgive eventually?
Forgiveness is not one decision Forgiveness begins with a single decision but it doesn’t end there. No matter how many stories you hear about the “moment of forgiveness,” realize that forgiveness is a process, a journey.
Why don’t people forgive?
The truth is that many people don’t forgive because it is not time to forgive—and taking the time to proceed at their own pace can be empowering, intelligent, and worthy. Simply put, it is alarming how un-psychological many psychologists can be; forgiveness is not the best medicine for all people all the time.
What do stalkers say about their victims?
Stalkers often emphasize that they “love” their victims and occasionally say they stalk to keep others safe. For example, an abusive ex-husband might say he stalks his ex-wife to ensure she’s properly caring for their children.
Is forgiveness a form of forgetting?
Moreover, cultural tropes aside, forgiving is not forgetting, or denying, either. And forgiveness is a process, not a single act. Again, you don’t need to forgive your fellow subway rider who accidentally smacks you with his backpack; the words, “I’m sorry,” will suffice.
Is forgiveness the lifestyle of a believer?
Forgiveness is and must be the lifestyle of a Believer and not knowing how to forgive may be a temporary status; although living in that status simply means you have chosen death over life which is contrary to God’s command to choose life. Learn how to forgive and then live. It won’t matter.