When a narcissist has a new supply?

The narcissist is desperate and will do anything to ensure their supply is refilled because that is their means of survival. They ensure their supply is refilled by treating this new person as if they are special, because that is what draws them in. However, the supply refill can’t last forever.

Does the narcissist want me back?

As you can see from the above, many narcissists are quite willing to come back for as long as it suits their needs, while remaining oblivious to yours. If you cannot realistically envision a good future together that does not involve the narcissist suddenly becoming different, you might want to stay “discarded.”

Why do narcissists always return to their ex-lovers?

A narcissist will always return to an ex-lover to ensure that his narcissistic supply still pines for him and that she never moves on from the pain he has caused her.

Does the narcissist prefer you over the new supply?

In your heart, you may want very much for the narcissist to prefer you over the new supply but, the fact is, narcissists don’t really miss any of their former supply sources. Narcissists don’t stay in relationships because they emotionally bond with their partner (s). Narcissists typically have what is called an avoidant attachment style.

Is your narcissist hoovering?

Remember, the narcissist is never worried about what you’re doing while he’s gone or that you’ve found a better love because he’s conditioned you to wait for him…to wait for the hoover. It’s time to ignore the subtle signs of hoovering and get on with your life.

Will a narcissist leave someone who is rich?

Narcissists have been known to leave someone who is wealthy and take up with someone on government assistance. Don’t try to analyze the narcissist’s motives and mindset against your own. You cannot make sense of the situation by believing they will think or act like you. You can only gain an advantage by thinking as THEY do.