Who does your happiness depend on?

Think of all the things that happen within your day; All the interactions with family, friends, your boss, and workers at coffee shops and grocery stores. Why do some things bug you but others don’t?

What do you do when your happiness depends on someone else?

Instead of hiding from less-than-ideal feelings or relying on someone to make them go away, get in touch with your sense of curiosity instead. Ask yourself what they’re telling you. To learn more about yourself and your emotions, try: meditation.

Can you find happiness in another person?

Well, the good news is: No one and no thing can cause you to be happy. In fact, people and things don’t cause happiness at all. It’s what you think about those other people and things that determines whether you feel happy or sad. Just as money can’t make you happy, other people can’t make you happy either.

Do you depend on other people to find happiness?

For each person, happiness can be found in different things. For this reason, we cannot let this depend on other people, for it is something personal! Maybe you are afraid of finding your own happiness or because this requires a lot of responsibility.

When you depend on others what happens when you depend?

When you depend on others, there will come a moment when you notice that you are not happy. In reality, you are looking for other people’s happiness and not your own.

Do you have to control everyone to be happy?

You have to believe in yourself, in your possibilities, and stop depending on their approval in order to “be happy.” There is no reason for you to control everything. You do not have to please everyone. This is impossible to achieve and you will only become frustrated. You do not need to please everyone.

How do you enjoy being with people?

If you truly want to enjoy being with people, you have to start with being able to be happy by yourself first. I know this seems like a cliche and is repeated so often, but it is true. Once, you become comfortable by yourself, then you can truly appreciate people for what they are and not because of the service they provide.