Why am I so unkind to other people?

Being unkind, more often than not, is a reaction to anger with ourselves or our perceived inadequacy. When I was rude to other people, it was because I was afraid they wouldn’t like the nice me. I didn’t mind if they were angry at the fake, unkind me, because it really wasn’t me.

Is it bad to remember someone’s unfriendliness?

If you don’t have people in your corner, there are times when remembered unfriendliness comes back karma-like to cut you off from your deserved reward. People tend to “feel” rather than remember someone’s unfriendliness.

Why can’t I be friends with anyone?

Greed and selfishness isn’t good for friendship. You hijack conversations : people don’t stand their chance to air their views before. You just want them take a seat and listen. Maybe you just dictate the rules of friendship to our friends. Only few people will find you friendly. Finally, maybe is just your nature.

Why is it so hard to make friends?

You’re selfish and greedy :You only make friends that would benefit you all alone. Greed and selfishness isn’t good for friendship. You hijack conversations : people don’t stand their chance to air their views before. You just want them take a seat and listen. Maybe you just dictate the rules of friendship to our friends.

How do you deal with ununkind people?

Here are 10 ways to deal with those “unkind” people and interact with empathy and grace. 1. Try Not to Take it Personally Understand that most of the time when we interact with others, especially strangers, they are not purposefully trying to elicit our anger with their behavior.

Why do people keep going from one relationship to the next?

Some of them feel that they must have someone in their lives all the time, so they keep going from one relationship to the next, since they absolutely dread the thought of being single. Their need to be with someone is stronger than desire to have a meaningful relationship.

Why do people find their partners so easily?

They find their partners easily because they are convinced they can! Usually that confidence comes from previous experiences – if you found it easy to find partners earlier in life, that feeling of success will stay with you and attract more successful events, and it becomes a repeating and self-reinforcing effect.