Why did my husband say hurtful things to his wife?

It was quite possible that this husband was (at least somewhere deep down) afraid of losing his wife. So his hurtful verbal phrases were one way to ensure that she didn’t leave him because he was making her believe that she would never attract anyone else.

Why does my husband act like a victim all the time?

He Acts Like a Victim Because nothing is ever his fault, your narcissistic husband is usually the “ victim ” of others’ actions. If his project at work failed, he will blame it on his boss, co-worker, or clients. He constantly has a victim mentality because he cannot look at his own actions and see that he is responsible.

Why does my husband say I am not worthy of him?

The whole notion that your husband is some kind of new person or has changed in some kind of meaningful way therefore you are not worthy of him is often a crock of bull. Men or women who talk that way are most often just putting themselves first and putting their spouse second.

Why do I not remember what my husband said to me?

You fight back because it is your nature to defend yourself. Or you may retreat because that too can be hardwired in how you deal with these situations. Either way, you most likely will feel so caught up in the drama, you may lose perspective. Hence you may not remember exactly what your husband said.

Why does my husband get annoyed easily?

Your Husband Gets Annoyed Easily – Some guys are perfectionists. They can be very anal about things. And if they are trying to figure out something and can’t quite get it figured out, the least little distraction can set him off. Let’s say you are sitting there enjoying a quiet evening and something happens and he goes into his funk.

Is your spouse throwing out hurtful comments that ruin your marriage?

One relatively common theme is when one spouse gets in the habit of throwing out hurtful comments or words so often that it almost becomes a habit. Whether they are aware of it or not, this can very negatively affect their marriage and compromise the way that their spouse thinks of both them and the future of their marriage.

Why does my husband turn his fussiness on Me?

It is when he turns his fussiness upon you that things can start going south. There is usually a good reason for why this is happening and it is not always something you are doing or saying, despite what he might say. Remember, when people are annoyed or irritated, what they say is not always what they really feel.