Why do guys break up then come back?

He may not be doing this on purpose, but if your ex regularly breaks up with you and comes back, it is likely he’s testing your boundaries to see what kind of behaviour you’ll tolerate. If you take an ex back after he’s repeatedly broken your heart, you’re letting him know you will accept his bad behaviour.

Why do me and my ex keep going back to each other?

Walfish says that people return to an ex to stop feeling so lonely, and Martinez explains that one of the main reasons people return to exes is fear. “It’s fear of going back to the dating scene, being open and vulnerable in a new relationship, or being heartbroken in a new relationship.”

Why does my boyfriend keep Leaving Me and coming back?

People want comfort, not to be controlled. This is why he keeps leaving you. He keeps coming back because it’s not as easy out there as everyone thinks. Everyone wants to be single until they actually are. It’s not for everyone.

Why does he keep coming back to you after a breakup?

If he keeps coming back to you after a breakup, he either envies you (and the progress you’ve actually made in life) OR he’s coming back to you because you still haven’t made any progress in life – like him. He is attracted to women who share a similar lifestyle as himself. The best way to avoid his trap?

Why does my boyfriend keep trying to make things work again?

Usually this happens because someone betrayed his trust, whether that was his ex-girlfriend or even his mother. He can’t come to terms with that and accept it. He can’t process the pain. That’s why he keeps “trying again” to work things out but keeps hitting the same roadblocks.

Why does my ex boyfriend always want to win me back?

That’s why his desire to win you back (and discard you again) will always be tempting to him, because his ego demands constant attention. If his behavior is extremely hurtful (especially in his need to punish you) then he may have NPD or APD.