Why do guys look at other guys in the locker room?

Guys look to see differences, hairy, or big balls or cut/uncut, sometimes seeing really small guys and wonder how big they get under a shower what else is there to think about, look and be proud. It’s hard to avoid seeing other guys in the locker room or showers if you’re going to avoid bumping into them.

Do straight guys look at other guys’ gear in the men’s room?

Straight Married Guy (Fred):Nope. There’s an unspoken rule, at least among straight guys, that in the men’s room you look anywhere but at another man’s equipment.

Do men feel awkward in the shower at the YMCA?

The men’s shower area at YMCA are open and you can see everyone there. The purpose is to wash your hair and body and go. The only think I notice is no one’s is talking. I don’t know if they feel awkward or shy. In Europe, it’s interesting, you feel more comfortable , less constrains about nudity. The men are more relax, looks happy, and don’t care.

What do you think about locker room dynamics?

The spacious locker room dynamics are fascinating. You have some guys who are all-towel (minority). Some guys who are towel-less but comfortable (majority). Some guys who are towel-less but slightly uncomfortable (they just happen to hold the towel in a certain location).

How do gay men respond to “don’t flatter yourself”?

Most gay men have responded to his remark by saying, “Don’t flatter yourself” and adding, “We’ve been showering with you most of our lives, and we know how to be appropriate.” I like those responses, but there’s one we’re shying away from, and this truth deserves to be said: “Yes! I am looking, and so are many other gay and bisexual men.”

Should you wear flip-flops in the locker room?

In other words, don’t scan your fellow gym member up and down. When you’re in the shower and other areas of the locker room, you should wear flip-flops. “You’re protecting yourself, but it also send a message to others that you’re concerned about their hygiene and well-being,” Swann says.