Why do I always want to hang out with my friends?

If you’re always asking your friend to hang out and the person doesn’t initiate any get-togethers, it could be that they’re socially anxious. But it could also be that you want to hang out with them more than they want to spend time with you. That’s a sure sign of a one-sided friendship.

What are the signs of a one-sided friendship?

That’s another potential sign of a one-sided friendship. A friend is someone who wants to spend time with you. If you’re always asking your friend to hang out and the person doesn’t initiate any get-togethers, it could be that they’re socially anxious.

Why do some friends only reach out when you’re the one?

Because people get into patterns of behavior. Because some people are more proactive and other people are more reactive. Because there are different levels of friendships. Point being, at the end of the day, yes there are some friendships that will only continue if you are the one reaching out — and that’s okay.

What’s wrong with reaching out to others?

There is nothing wrong with the action of reaching out. It is the feeling you are having that troubles you. You may be fearful that you are not wanted, simply because you don’t want to wait. If you wait for others to reach out to you it is uncomfortable.

Is it okay to let go of a friendship?

If you no longer have the same interests, it might be okay to let go, especially if the friendship is one-sided. If it isn’t, it may be possible to still be friends, even if you don’t see each other often or talk infrequently. If possible, have a conversation with your friend and gauge how they feel about you.

Is it possible to stay friends with someone who doesn’t care?

You don’t need to have people around you that don’t respect who you are, and you certainly don’t need to stay friends with this individual who doesn’t care for you enough to reciprocate your kindness. There are many signs of a one-sided friendship.

Why do people ask you to hang out instead of texting?

You’re usually the one who makes contact, but on occasion, you get a text or a call from them. Instead of asking you to hang out, or to strike up a conversation, it’s because they need something. They may need a ride, some money, or another favor. Don’t get us wrong; friends should help out each other.