Why do I not keep friends?

Social anxiety This self-doubt can cause trouble keeping friends. Social anxiety often makes it hard to think rationally. Instead of enjoying the moment, you might feel preoccupied with what the other person is thinking. Instead of feeling confident with yourself, you might be worried about looking silly or dumb.

How do you get strangers to like you?

Fortunately, there are a few tricks you can use to make strangers like you instantly:

1. Smile! The importance of smiling can’t be understated.
2. Use their name a few times.
3. Break the ice with some levity.
4. Open your body language.
5. Gesticulate.
6. Get them to talk about themselves.
7. Talk to everyone, all the time.

How do I approach an attractive stranger?

Compliment them subtly. Ask them about themselves, however, also be able to talk about yourself (but always turn it back to them). Have a genuine smile and smiling eyes, while being engaged in the conversation. Seem sincerely into the conversation and interested in that person.

Why don’t men approach me?

It might not be that they find you unattractive: you could be putting out the vibe that you want to be left alone. Here are a few reasons men don’t approach you. If you’re just drinking a glass of water, or even worse nothing at all, while all of your friends are drinking cocktails, guys assume that you plan on making a quick exit.

How do I get more guys to approach me?

Try to give off positive vibes, and more people will approach. You appear to be taken if you arrive with guys, or meet guys while you’re out. Guys have no way of knowing if you’re “with” a guy. Some guys might ask, but some might just move on to someone who looks more available.

How do you know if a guy won’t approach you?

You’re constantly doing something. You’re either carrying drinks to your friends or initiating a card game or setting up group photos or singing karaoke. If you won’t stand still for two seconds, guys can’t approach you.

Do you approach girls who don’t look stylish/put together?

I don’t usually approach girls who don’t look stylish and put together. Now, if you want to keep guys away from you, doing the “celeb in public homeless look” might be a good strategy.