Why do Narcissists live in a fantasy world?

Since reality doesn’t support their grandiose view of themselves, narcissists live in a fantasy world propped up by distortion, self-deception, and magical thinking. These fantasies protect them from feelings of inner emptiness and shame, so facts and opinions that contradict them are ignored or rationalized away.

What do narcissists crave?

Passive Self-Importance The covert narcissist certainly craves importance and thirsts for admiration but it can look different to those around them. They might give back-handed compliments, or purposefully minimize their accomplishments or talents so that people will offer them reassurance of how talented they are.

What is narcissistic fantasy?

Covert narcissistic individuals are those whose fantasies, whether conscious or unconscious, are indeed grandiose, inflated, unrealistic, and self-centered. They may be preoccupied with fantasies of grandiose achievements, imagining themselves as world heroes, centers of attention, and acclaimed by all.

Why does my narcissistic boyfriend still have a romantic fantasy?

The person is more important to her than the “picture.” As the two of you get to know each other better, your narcissistic beau begins to notice the ways that you do not fit into his “Love Script.” The romantic fantasy is still intact because he believes that you are still potentially perfect, just in need of a bit of guidance.

Are narcissists successful in their fantasy worlds?

Living in fantasy world might seem to be the proverbial empty calories, but it still accomplishes the necessary task of filling them up. While there are Narcissists that do achieve success, the vast majority are often too crippled by insecurity and doubt to put in the time and effort success requires.

What is the narcissistic love script?

“The Narcissistic Love Script” is the term that I recently invented to describe the very detailed and highly specific fantasy that many narcissistic men construct about their perfect romantic relationship.

What is it like to live with a narcissist?

Ask anyone who shared a life with a narcissist, or knew one and they are likely to sigh: “What a waste”. Waste of potential, waste of opportunities, waste of emotions, a wasteland of arid addiction and futile pursuit. Narcissists are as gifted as they come.