Why do narcissists play their exes against each other?

To make the new supply jealous and create more heartache to the former supply, (devalue them). They play them one against the other. The narcissist will play themselves as the victim and portray the former supply as the controlling, jealous, crazy ex.

Should I hurt my narcissistic ex-boyfriend?

Even if you can feel your blood is boiling, just be calm. Because if you do the narcissist will see it works to make you jealous and the narcissist will have control over you. Many people wants to hurt their narcissistic ex.

Why do narcissists seek contact with their mutual friends?

Many narcissists, for example, seek contact with their mutual friends or just with your friends after the separation. Narcissists want everyone in your circle of friends to think they are the best and the only good ones in all of history. And that’s why you always have to be one step ahead of the narcissists.

Does the narcissist have time for his ex during the honeymoon phase?

Like the narcissist did to you at the beginning of your relationship. So at the honeymoon phase when everything feels so good, the narcissist doesn’t have time for any ex. There will be no triangulation. Usually. I can’t speek for all but usually.

Does the narcissist prefer you over the new supply?

In your heart, you may want very much for the narcissist to prefer you over the new supply but, the fact is, narcissists don’t really miss any of their former supply sources. Narcissists don’t stay in relationships because they emotionally bond with their partner (s). Narcissists typically have what is called an avoidant attachment style.

What does it mean when the narcissist says things aren’t working out?

Therefore, when the narcissist says things aren’t working out with the new supply and that they made a mistake, you’re feeling that maybe there’s something about you that the narcissist prefers. This is a story we make up in our minds because we haven’t yet accepted that the narcissist simply cannot emotionally bond with anyone.

Can a narcissist fall in love with a new supply?

They can go into the new relationship and enjoy the love-bombing phase, but even while they’re experiencing that, they understand that it won’t last. They’re getting out of it what they can in the moment. Perhaps you feel that the narcissist has ‘downgraded’ with the new supply.

What makes a narcissist block you?

What Makes a Narcissist Block You? Undeniably, blocking is BY FAR the most pathetic and cowardly game that Narcissists love to play. They will block you for different reasons, and the number one goal is to elicit control over you and make you submissive. This is also their way of showing just how little you mean to them.