Why do some parents get mad at their kids for bad grades?
Some parents actually care. So, why do some parents get mad over bad grades? Probably because they see a lack of appreciation for all that has been invested in their child/student – and the resulting lack of effort put forth by said student.
Why do some parents get so angry with their children?
I believe that parents seem to get so angry with children even when they are trying to do the right thing, is because they want the best for their kids. They push for their kids to do, and be the best they can be. And sometimes that can come of as anger. And sometimes it IS anger.
Why don’t I try hard enough at school?
Sometimes that lack of effort is seen as a reflection on their parenting; but most often comes down to: your parents know what you are capable of and you just didn’t try hard enough. This is due to the wrong education aystem in many areas. Students are encouraged to top without understanding rather than to fail with some knowledge.
How does dealing with difficult parents affect a child?
Dealing with difficult parents is especially hard on the emotionally sensitive child who can’t help but notice other people’s feelings. The immaturity of the parent means that these children develop the heavy responsibility of worrying about other people’s needs.
Why is it bad to be obsessed with your child’s grades?
If the child believes that they are stupid because they are a C student, they will become a low achiever throughout life, no matter what their human potential is. Obsessing over a child’s grades and making that the determining factor for your happiness as a parent is a bad decision.
How do I deal with my parents when I get bad grades?
Your parents may be angry or frustrated with a bad grade. If they get angry or upset, try to remain calm on your end. Arguing back or doing things like crying and yelling will only escalate the situation. Take a deep breath and try to respond calmly to any anger you receive. It can help to pause and take deep breaths during the conversation.