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Why do some people never make plans?
The Present Moment Is All There Is: Spontaneous individuals don’t naturally think ahead or naturally see why planning ahead is of value. They often just haven’t thought about what they want to do yet and it feels like a lot of energy to think about something that’s not immediately relevant.
What to do if you’re always the one making plans?
What to do when you’re *always* the one making plans
- Ask yourself why it’s happening. There are many reasons your friends may not text you.
- Make sure your friends appreciate you.
- Don’t text them for a while.
- Communicate with your friends.
- Do you feel like you’re always the one making plans?
Why do my friends make me feel resentful of my plans?
If you’ve always been the one to step up to put the plans together your friends might assume that’s just how things are in the relationship. They don’t realize it’s making you feel resentful or insecure.
Why do other people always make plans with Me?
If you are the outgoing type who always arranges things, then other people often take advantage of that, usually out of laziness or time constraints, assuming you will make most of plans. There really is something about you that annoys them.
How do you make friends when you don’t have friends?
If you can, try to find out what it is that causes friends to leave you out of their plans. Look for other groups geared to activities you like. You might try college groups, church groups and so on. I joined a cycling club run by the owner of a bike shop and made a few new friends.
Why don’t my friends contact me anymore?
One thing that usually doesn’t work is to stop trying to set up plans and see what happens. If your friends don’t get in touch you won’t be able to say why. If they’re busy they may just be too distracted to contact you for a while.